It is highly unethical for a therapist to develop romantic or sexual feelings for a client. If you feel like your therapist is showing signs of inappropriate attachment, it's crucial to trust your instincts and seek a new therapist.
Here are some signs that could indicate an unhealthy boundary crossing:
- Excessive personal disclosure: Sharing details about their personal life that are unrelated to your therapy or going beyond the boundaries of professional rapport.
- Inappropriate physical touch: Any type of unwanted physical contact, even a friendly gesture, is inappropriate in a therapeutic setting.
- Making suggestive comments or flirting: This is a clear violation of professional ethics and should be reported.
- Spending extra time with you: Extending sessions beyond the scheduled time or engaging in activities outside of the therapy sessions.
- Expressing admiration or longing for you: This can be a sign of romantic or sexual interest and is highly inappropriate.
- Focusing on your appearance: Making frequent compliments about your looks or clothing.
- Trying to establish a relationship beyond therapy: Suggesting social outings, sharing contact information outside therapy, or expressing a desire to continue a relationship beyond the therapeutic setting.
It's important to remember that all of these behaviors are unethical and can be harmful. If you experience any of these signs, it is essential to address the issue with your therapist or seek a new therapist.
If you believe your therapist has crossed a boundary, you can report them to the appropriate licensing board.
