Friends with benefits (FWB) arrangements can be tricky to navigate. While there's no official rulebook, certain guidelines are generally understood to ensure mutual respect and prevent hurt feelings. Here are some common rules:
Communication is Key
- Be upfront and honest: Discuss your expectations and boundaries clearly from the start.
- Set clear communication guidelines: Determine how often you'll communicate and what topics are off-limits.
- Be respectful of each other's time and feelings: Don't ghost or ignore messages.
Maintaining Boundaries
- Define physical boundaries: Agree on what is acceptable in terms of intimacy and what is not.
- Avoid emotional attachments: Remember that this is a physical relationship, not a romantic one.
- Respect each other's personal lives: Avoid excessive involvement in each other's personal affairs.
Honesty and Transparency
- Be honest about your intentions: Don't lead each other on or make false promises.
- Be open about other relationships: If you're seeing other people, be upfront about it.
- Don't lie or deceive: Honesty is crucial in maintaining trust and respect.
Ending the Arrangement
- Communicate your decision clearly: If you want to end the FWB arrangement, be direct and respectful.
- Be prepared for awkwardness: Ending an FWB arrangement can be difficult, but it's important to handle it with maturity.
- Maintain respect: Even if the arrangement ends, try to remain friends or at least on civil terms.
Remember, these are just general guidelines. Every FWB arrangement is different, and what works for one couple may not work for another. The most important thing is to communicate openly and honestly with each other to ensure both parties are comfortable and happy.
