Testing someone's feelings is a tricky and potentially damaging endeavor. Instead of trying to manipulate or test him, focus on observing his behavior and actions.
Here are some signs he might have feelings for you:
- He makes an effort to spend time with you. He might initiate plans, prioritize your time, or make an effort to see you even if it's inconvenient.
- He listens attentively and remembers details about you. He shows interest in your life, asks questions, and remembers things you've shared.
- He touches you in a non-platonic way. This could be a hand on your arm, a playful nudge, or a lingering hug.
- He looks at you with affection. He holds eye contact, smiles when he sees you, and might blush.
- He makes an effort to impress you. He might dress up for a date, try to make you laugh, or do something special for you.
- He's protective of you. He might step in to defend you, offer you a jacket when you're cold, or make sure you get home safely.
- He opens up to you. He shares personal thoughts and feelings, indicating a level of trust and comfort with you.
Ultimately, the best way to know if someone has feelings for you is to communicate openly and honestly. Ask him how he feels, and be prepared to hear his answer, whether it's what you want to hear or not.
