It depends on the situation and your goals.
Consider the following factors:
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The reason for contacting your ex: Are you reaching out for a genuine reason, like a work-related matter or a casual check-in, or are you hoping to rekindle the relationship?
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Your ex's feelings towards you: Are they receptive to contact, or are they trying to move on?
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Your intentions: Are you looking for closure, a casual conversation, or something more?
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The timing: Is it late at night, when they might be trying to sleep?
Here are some scenarios to consider:
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If you are trying to rekindle the relationship: It's generally not a good idea to text your ex at night. They might be trying to unwind and relax, and your message could disrupt their peace.
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If you need to communicate for a specific reason: It's okay to text your ex at night, but keep it brief and professional.
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If you are just checking in: It's best to text your ex during the day, when they are more likely to be awake and responsive.
In general, it's best to err on the side of caution and avoid texting your ex at night, unless there is a legitimate reason to do so.
