It's frustrating to argue with someone who believes they're always correct. Here's how to approach the situation:
1. Acknowledge their perspective:
- Start by actively listening to their point of view. Show that you understand their position, even if you disagree.
- Use phrases like, "I hear what you're saying," or "I understand your perspective."
2. Avoid direct confrontation:
- Don't engage in an argument that's likely to escalate. Instead, try to find common ground.
- Focus on discussing the issues rather than proving them wrong.
3. Offer alternatives:
- Present different perspectives and suggest alternative solutions.
- Emphasize the benefits of considering various viewpoints.
4. Focus on the future:
- Shift the conversation from past disagreements to potential solutions for the future.
- Focus on finding a resolution that benefits everyone.
5. Don't get personal:
- Keep the discussion focused on the topic at hand. Avoid attacking their character or making personal insults.
- Remember, the goal is to find a resolution, not to win an argument.
6. Set boundaries:
- If the conversation becomes unproductive, politely excuse yourself.
- Let them know that you're willing to discuss it later when they're more open to considering different viewpoints.
Example:
Instead of saying, "You're wrong," try, "I understand your perspective, but I see things differently. How about we consider these other options?"
Remember: It's important to choose your battles wisely. Sometimes, the best approach is to simply agree to disagree.
