It's difficult to completely control who we are attracted to.
While we might have preferences based on personality traits, interests, or physical characteristics, attraction is often a complex interplay of factors that we don't fully control.
Our brains are wired to be attracted to certain features that signal good health and reproductive potential, and these factors can influence our attraction to others.
Additionally, social and cultural influences can shape our perceptions of attractiveness and play a role in who we find appealing.
While we can't always choose who we are attracted to, we can develop a greater understanding of our own preferences and how they are shaped by our experiences and environment.
This self-awareness can help us navigate relationships and make choices that align with our values and goals.
