Asking the right questions is crucial when considering marriage, especially within the Islamic framework. While every couple's journey is unique, here are some essential areas to explore:
Understanding His Faith and Practice
- How does your faith guide your daily life?
- What are your religious priorities and commitments?
- How do you understand the role of Islam in marriage?
- What are your thoughts on prayer, fasting, and other Islamic practices?
- How do you approach differences in opinion or interpretation of Islamic teachings?
Family and Social Values
- What is your relationship with your family like?
- How do you see your family's involvement in your marriage?
- What are your views on the role of women in society?
- How do you handle disagreements or conflict within relationships?
- What are your expectations for the division of responsibilities in the home?
Personal Goals and Aspirations
- What are your long-term goals and aspirations?
- How do you envision your future together?
- What are your career aspirations and how do you see them impacting your marriage?
- What are your interests and hobbies?
- How do you balance personal time with family responsibilities?
Communication and Compatibility
- How do you prefer to communicate?
- What are your strengths and weaknesses in communication?
- How do you deal with disagreements or conflict?
- What are your expectations for intimacy and emotional closeness in marriage?
- How do you handle stress and challenges in your life?
Financial Responsibility and Planning
- What are your financial goals and priorities?
- How do you manage your finances?
- What are your views on financial independence and shared responsibilities?
- How do you approach major financial decisions as a couple?
- What are your thoughts on financial support for family and extended family?
Remember, these questions are a starting point. It's important to have open and honest conversations with your future husband, building trust and understanding.
