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Why am I surrounded by people but still feel lonely?

Published in Loneliness and Connection 1 min read

Feeling lonely even when surrounded by people is a common experience, and it can be perplexing. It often stems from a disconnect between physical presence and genuine connection.

Here are some reasons why you might feel this way:

  • Lack of meaningful connection: While you might be surrounded by people, you might not have deep, meaningful relationships.
  • Social anxiety: Even when surrounded by people, social anxiety can make it difficult to connect and feel comfortable.
  • Emotional disconnect: You might feel like your relationships lack emotional depth or understanding.
  • Different life stages: If you're going through a significant life change, like a career shift or loss of a loved one, you might find that your social circle isn't keeping up with you.
  • Introversion: While introverts often enjoy spending time alone, they also need meaningful connection and can feel lonely in superficial social situations.

Feeling lonely is a powerful signal that you need connection. It's important to explore your feelings, identify the underlying reasons, and actively seek ways to build meaningful relationships.

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