Yes, having a favorite child is considered haram (forbidden) in Islam.
Islam emphasizes treating all children with equality and fairness. This includes showing equal love, affection, and care to all children, regardless of their gender, age, or personality.
The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said: "The best of you are those who are best to their families, and I am the best of you to my family." (Sunan al-Tirmidhi)
Showing favoritism towards one child can lead to feelings of jealousy, resentment, and animosity among siblings. It can also damage the family bonds and create lasting emotional scars.
While it's natural to have different relationships with each child, Islam stresses the importance of avoiding any actions that might make one child feel less loved or valued than the others.
This principle extends beyond just material possessions. It encompasses everything from spending time with each child to giving them emotional support.
It's essential to be mindful of our actions and words, ensuring that we don't inadvertently favor one child over another.
Treating all children equally is a reflection of justice and fairness, two core values of Islam.
