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Do Babies Get Jealous?

Published in Child Development 2 mins read

Yes, babies can experience jealousy.

While they may not understand the concept of jealousy in the same way adults do, they can exhibit behaviors that indicate feelings of envy or possessiveness.

Signs of Jealousy in Babies

  • Increased clinginess: A baby may suddenly want to be held more often or cry when separated from their caregiver.
  • Regression: A baby may start acting younger, such as sucking on their thumb or wanting a bottle again.
  • Tantrums: A baby may throw tantrums or become fussy when they see another child or adult receiving attention.
  • Physical aggression: A baby may try to hit, kick, or bite another child or adult who is getting attention.

Reasons for Jealousy in Babies

  • Attention seeking: Babies need attention from their caregivers to feel secure and loved. When they see another person getting attention, they may feel like they are being neglected.
  • Change in routine: A new sibling or other significant life change can disrupt a baby's routine and make them feel insecure.
  • Developmental stage: As babies grow, they become more aware of their surroundings and may start to compare themselves to others.

It's important to remember that babies are still learning and developing. Their behaviors may not always be intentional or malicious.

How to Handle Jealousy in Babies

  • Give them plenty of attention: Make sure your baby feels loved and secure by giving them plenty of cuddles, playtime, and attention.
  • Acknowledge their feelings: Let your baby know that you understand their feelings and that it's okay to feel jealous sometimes.
  • Don't punish them: Punishing a baby for feeling jealous will only make them feel worse. Instead, try to redirect their attention to something else.
  • Talk to your doctor: If you're concerned about your baby's jealousy, talk to your doctor. They can help you rule out any medical conditions and offer advice on how to handle the situation.

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