It's impossible to see exactly how you look to others because we perceive ourselves differently than how others see us. We have a limited view of our own appearance, primarily from what we see in the mirror.
Here are some ways to get a closer look at how you appear to others:
- Ask for Feedback: Directly ask friends, family, or colleagues for their honest opinion. Be open to their feedback, even if it's not what you want to hear.
- Take Photos and Videos: Observe how you look in different lighting and from various angles. Pay attention to your posture, facial expressions, and overall appearance.
- Use a Mirror: While a mirror shows your reflection, try standing further away or using a full-length mirror to get a better sense of your overall silhouette.
- Pay Attention to Reactions: Notice how people react to you, their body language, and verbal cues. This can offer insights into how you present yourself.
Remember, everyone perceives beauty and attractiveness differently. Focus on being comfortable and confident in your own skin.